The Consummate Hostess

We all have a different entertaining style, one that reflects our individual personality, wishes and desires. I love how very personal a dinner party can be, just by the decor, menu and guest list. What entertaining style suits you the best?

Do you have your finger on the pulse of modernity, like above?


Or are you a fun loving prepster?

Maybe you prefer more intimate gatherings?


Or perhaps for you, formal is the only way to go.


Do you thrive the ease of casual entertaining?

Or perhaps you are a boho-chic host.


Maybe you are an eco-fabulous host?

Do you have a flair for the dramatic?



Or perhaps for you, a touch of whimsy should be added to any and every event.

Whatever style suits you best, I hope you, in the words of a favorite decorator, whoomp it up! Your style should be an expression of your personality and most importantly, fun not just for the guests but for you.

* Beautiful images from mymodernmet.com, socialculture.com, life.com, countryliving.com, thecookskitchen.net,unknown, jordanferny, hostessblog.com

I loved everything about our trip to Barcelona in May but one of the things that I enjoyed the most was the oh so delicious Catalan cuisine. This soiree is inspired by the incredible food of both Catalonia and Spain and is a relaxed evening of friends, good food and spirits. This menu is intended to be light and is designed to all be eaten without the use of utensils.

Menu:
Gazpacho shooters (see Wednesday's post for Gazpacho recipe). Top shooters with chopped hard boiled egg or cucumber sticks. Prepare this at least a day in advance, to ensure proper flavor and less stress for you on the day of the soiree.

Pa amb Tomaquet- This is basically the Spanish bruschetta and can be found at nearly every restaurant in Barcelona.Recipe:
1 ciabatta
4 garlic cloves, halved
4 small ripe tomatoes
Extra virgin olive oil
Kosher salt

Preheat grill or broiler. Slice ciabatta crosswise into 4-6 pieces, then cut each slice horizontally. Place the bread on grill rack or on a baking sheet. Grill or broil, turning once, until golden brown on both sides, about two minutes on each side.

While toasts are still warm, rub them on one side with cut garlic halves. Cut each tomato in half. Rub the cut sides of tomato on top of the toasts until only skins are left, then discard skins. Drizzle with olive oil and sprinkle with salt.


Selection of Spanish cheese, meat and quince (membrillo in Spanish). I would use Manchego, thinly sliced Serrano ham, and quince. Also serve salty Spanish almonds on tray. Fear not- you can buy all of these items at your local gourmet store.


Gambes a la Planxa (griddled shrimp with garlic and parsley)
24 lg. fresh prawns in the shell
Salt and fresh ground pepper
Olive oil
4 garlic cloves, minced
Handful of fresh flat-leaf parsley leaves, minced

Season shrimp with salt and pepper and drizzle generously with olive oil. Place a griddle over high heat until hot. The griddle is ready when a drop of water flicked on the surface evaporates instantly. Place the shrimp on a hot surface and cook, turning once, until they are opaque throughout and the shells begin to brown, about 5 minutes on each side. Sprinkle with garlic and parsley; cook, without stirring, for about 30 seconds; and then turn shrimp one last time. Transfer to a warm platter and serve at once. Makes 4 servings.

Drink: Sangria (for recipe, click here ), Cava and sparkling water.

Decor: Think simple, colorful and soft lighting. Use an abundance of tea lights to create a twinkling effect. My sunflowers are in bloom, so for flowers, I would make bouquets out of the them and place in various locations. Small plates are best for this night. Why not use a collection of brightly colored salad plates for a fun look.

Music: Spanish classical guitar. If your budget allows, hire a classical guitarist to come to the party and play. If not, a cd is perfect!


Dress:
I would wear something along these lines. All three dresses can be found at edressme.com. I would wear flats of some sort to allow for easy mobility and miles of gold bangles for a bit more relaxed look. What more information about one or all of these fabulous dresses? Just click on the image for the scoop.

Every Saturday I am going to post a new party idea, with my suggestions for food, drink, music and decor. If you have any ideas for a future Saturday Soiree, please let me know!

It is a steamy summer evening and on a night like this, I love a refreshing and light dinner. Giada De Laurentiis' Lemon Spaghetti is the foundation of a perfect summer meal. It is extremely easy to make and always a hit. I add a fresh arugula salad to compliment the dish and pair with a glass of Sauvignon Blanc.

Recipe, courtesy of Food Network is:

Ingredients:
1 pound spaghetti
2/3 cup olive oil
2/3 cup grated Parmesan
1/2 cup lemon juice
Salt and freshly ground black pepper
1 tablespoon lemon zest
1/3 cup chopped fresh basil leaves

Directions:
Cook the pasta in a large pot of boiling salted water until tender but still firm to the bite, stirring occasionally, about eight minutes. Meanwhile, whisk the oil, Parmesan, and lemon juice in a large bowl to blend.

Drain the pasta, reserving one cup of the cooking liquid. Toss the pasta with the lemon sauce, and the reserved cooking liquid, adding 1/4 cup at a time as needed to moisten. Season with salt and pepper. Garnish with lemon zest and chopped basil.

* As a side note, I adore this pasta dish as a cold salad after a night of chilling in the refrigerator.


Arugula Salad:
Combine two cups arugula, halved cherry tomatoes and 1/2 cup shaved Parmesan. Season with salt and pepper. Combine 1/3 cup olive oil, juice from one lemon and zest of two lemons for the dressing. Pour dressing over salad and serve. Bon Appetit!

* Picture courtesy of Cheftools.com.

Greetings from The Consummate Hostess! I am so tickled that you found my little blog and look forward to sharing tips and tidbits with you. I have been throwing parties and entertaining my friends and family for years and after much encouragement, decided to start this blog and share some of my thoughts with you.

Please feel free to send me any entertaining or life questions that you might have and I will do my best to answer them.