The Consummate Hostess

Any southern belle worth her weight in biscuits knows how to throw a respectable Derby party. While watching the race at Churchill Downs should appear on everybody’s bucket list, you certainly don’t have to attend to enjoy a fabulous Derby soiree. Derby parties can range from a backyard barbecue to a white gloved affair and everything in between. I tend to favor throwing a more casual party that sets guests at ease and allows for easy conversation.

The Derby classics, of course! Suggestions include: Benedictine sandwiches (recipe here) , pimento cheese sandwiches (my own addition with recipe here), hot brown sliders, bourbon balls (recipe here), and Derby pie. After that, be inventive and have fun. Good ideas include shaved ham sandwiches on buttermilk biscuits, a homemade vegetable tray (don’t even get me started on the evils of store bought vegetable trays) with dressing, pasta salad and burgoo.

Drink:

There is one drink that simply must be present at any Derby party and it is, without question, a mint julep. The julep is the iconic drink of the south and the beverage of choice at Churchill Downs. While I am a big fan of bourbon, guests certainly appreciate having alcohol free options such as sweet tea and sparkling lemonade. Serve tea and lemonade in oversized serving jars.

Mint juleps (recipe here), Derby Coolers (recipe here), Sweet Tea

Music:

Have bluegrass music playing softly in the background. Be sure to turn off the music in time for the race. A nice touch is to print off copies of My Old Kentucky Home for guests to take home as souvenirs. Print the lyrics off on cardstock and then paste onto thick dark blue paper for a more polished look. For those of you who are familiar- the song is sung right before the race and is a nice way to engage guests.

Dress:

Have fun with your dress. Are you a big floral girl, a Lilly devotee or perhaps a bit more laid back? This is your opportunity to let your personality shine. Wear something comfortable yet chic (it can be a long day).

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Stick races for kids- If there are children in attendance, they will enjoy decorating and racing stick horses (which can be found at any toy store).

I like to place riding paraphernalia such as riding helmets, horseshoes, jumping boots, saddles (cleaned!) and silks around the entertaining area. A garland of red roses is presented to the winner of the race and red roses should decorate your home as well. I have oversized silver julep cups that I use as centerpieces overflowing with red roses.

Additionally, I like to place literature about the great Bluegrass State, horse racing and horses all around the home so guests can have the opportunity to learn a bit more about the event.